Member Code of Conduct

keep our community inclusive and safe

Our community is built on trust, consent, and mutual care. By participating in The Ring of Light Fellowship you agree to follow this Code of Conduct.

Core rules

Respect & Empathy. Treat all members with respect. Hear others without shaming or belittling.
Consent First. Ask for and receive explicit consent for any touch, intimate practice, or sensitive sharing. Silence is not consent.
No One-on-One Requests. Do not solicit private sessions with admin. Private recruitment for intimate practices is prohibited.
No Secrets. Do not request secrecy as a condition of participation (no “only for initiates” or “don’t tell others”).
No Minors or Vulnerable Persons in Intimate Practices. Ever.
No Illegal Activity. Do not distribute illegal substances or pressure others into illegal acts.
Public Event Transparency. Post event details publicly before gatherings (purpose, participants, substances, opt-out).
Report When Necessary. If you see harassment, coercion, or boundary violations, report it via the reporting form.
No Retaliation. Retaliating against reporters or witnesses is strictly forbidden.

Consequences

Violations may result in a range of actions: warning, temporary suspension from events, removal from the Fellowship, or referral to authorities where appropriate. Serious or repeated violations will lead to permanent removal.

FAQ

Q: What if I just want to casually chat with a member after becoming friends?

A: Members may form friendships and communicate privately, but private solicitation for intimate practices or teachings is prohibited. Any invitation to intimate practices must be posted publicly and follow the Event Rules. Questions involving teaching should be posted publicly Violations may result in suspension or removal.

Questions & Support

If you’re unsure how to act in a situation consult the Safety & Consent Policy for more detail. For reports and support: ringoflightfellowship@gmail.com or use this form.

By participating you agree to follow this Code of Conduct and the Safety & Consent Policy.